I am slow in posting things but this post below was written mid-April.
I want to remember this crazy time in our lives! We’re still very much in this pandemic and I don’t know how it all will end or resolve but I want to remember how it feels and how it all went down from our perspective.
I’d heard of COVID-19 a little bit from a cousin of mine who lived in China with her family. She eventually had to leave the country and went back to Utah to stay with her parents while the country was basically shut down. I heard on the news that the virus would make its way to the US, didn’t know of a timeline though. Just a few days after hearing this, we were enjoying spring break and hoping to go to the rodeo and the zoo. The Webbs had come and they had actually gone to the rodeo the night before we saw them. We were having a Chik-Fil-A picnic at the park near my parents house when suddenly everything just went nuts - the rodeo was cancelled, some NBA players had tested positive and all games were cancelled, and then they cancelled school for another week. Steph and I went to the store and it was crazy - no toilet paper, lots of food staples gone, we grabbed what we could. Tyler was told to work from home and we heard a lot of talk of social distancing and “an abundance of caution.” It all felt very weird and surreal. Still does, to be honest.
The first week after spring break kind of just felt like an extended spring break. We started doing a little more structured learning at home and trying to keep a bit of a schedule, but there was not any instruction from the schools yet. We had friends ask for play dates and although we said no, I felt weird for saying that, like I was being strict about social distancing. As the days wore on and more people were testing positive, everyone learned we needed to be careful with this. We have found a level of comfort for us - we are staying home, going outside a lot. We are seeing our parents, but that’s it. I’m going to the store by myself, trying to either leave the kids with a grandma or go in the evenings after they’re in bed.
Now we’re doing homeschool, which is actually going pretty well. It gets better every week. The first few days or so were pretty rough - I wasn’t sure why anyone would choose to homeschool, especially when they have younger children in the mix - but it is pretty smooth most days now. I’m super grateful for the kids’ teachers, and how involved and concerned about the kids they continue to be. I’m grateful that we are all healthy. We have everything we need, Tyler still has a job, and we’re all happy to be at home together.
Lots of chalk art happening these days.
And lots of game playing. I actually found this game while cleaning out a closet and was about to sell it (I think we’d had it for 6 years and never opened it) but Millie decided she wanted to play it, and they’ve played it almost every day since.
Lots of hyper, weirdly creative games. These kids are so silly!
We’ve started chatting with our families more - my family has started a weekly game night on video chat, which has been fun. We started it with Tyler’s fam too and it’s so great! Funny that it took a pandemic for us to start doing this. Not grateful for the pandemic itself, but grateful for the increased connection we have because of it.
The kids built a “fort” to block Hazel from the front room so she wouldn’t mess up their game. It worked for a little bit.
I’ve learned that letting them do something with their hands helps them listen better during our read aloud time. They have been enjoying the Little House in the Big Woods series!
So much bike riding, and sometimes our neighbors are out too.
Cute little bike race.
More chalk art, this one we saw online and had to try. It turned out so cool! I want one on every fence panel. Gotta go get more painters tape.
We still ride/walk/run to the park several times a week. I’m grateful they haven’t closed it, lots of other neighborhoods have closed theirs. It’s sad to see it empty and these disclaimers they have to post all over.
This is a unique time for sure!